“The mind of the discerning acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks it.” (Proverbs 18:15)
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit” (18:21). Your words are powerful – in the positive impact it can have as you bless others or the negative destruction with poor choices. If you enjoy speaking more than listening, you will have some great outcomes but you will definitely have some sour results. Be careful!
“An offended brother is harder to reach than a fortified city, and quarrels are like the bars of a fortress” (18:19). You may say something to offend someone – a family member, or a friend – and they may not accept your apology (12:18). Itʻs not what you intended by what you said, but what was heard and the grace that was conveyed (or not). Be careful.
“The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him” (18:17). You and your “offended brother” may try to convince others that youʻre right – but isnʻt it always the case when there is “more than one side to the story” and everything seems to favor one person until you hear the other side? Donʻt judge too quickly when people try to persuade you. Be careful!
“The mind of the discerning acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks it” (18:15). Listen, seek knowledge, and acquire wisdom. The Proverbs are full of great practices and ways to keep us from danger and evil. The better we know Godʻs Word, the more equipped we are in every complicated situation and can apply His wisdom (not our own) in ways that bring glory to Him and keep us from trouble.